Isha Koppikar: `Rakshabandhan is about presence, not presents`

For actress Isha Koppikar, Raksha Bandhan isn’t about grand gestures or public displays - it’s about presence, connection, and emotional honesty. Growing up, the festival was always a private celebration at the Koppikar household,  spent with her immediate family which included her parents and brother Anosh, in the comfort of their home. "It’s always been about simple moments. It is sort of a tradition now, ever since I was a child. Mom whips up delicacies that only she can cook, we all keep our phones and gadgets away and stay in, and we just enjoy being together. That time, that laughter, that bond - it’s what makes Rakhi feel so special to me," Isha shares.

Isha Koppikar on true meaning of Raksha Bandhan

While she laughs about her longstanding tradition of asking her brother for the standard gifts every girl demands of her brother, Isha is quick to clarify that it’s never been about material gifts. "Those are just fun moments, but what truly matters is knowing your sibling has your back, always," Isha says. Her brother, she adds, has been a constant source of strength in her life - a relationship she doesn’t take lightly. "Whether it’s childhood mischief or adult challenges, he’s been right there with me through everything. Raksha Bandhan is about presence, not presents, and my brother has always provided me with his presence, during good and bad times," she reveals.

Isha on friendships turned into sibling bonds

What about bonds that are chosen? Extending the sentiment beyond family, Isha speaks thoughtfully about the ones she has chosen - friendships that evolve into sibling-like relationships. "I’ve been blessed with some amazing girlfriends who are like sisters to me, and a few close friends who are like brothers. But I strongly believe that you can’t just go around calling people your brother or sister unless you’re willing to honour what that truly means. These relationships come with responsibility, trust, and loyalty. It`s not just about tying a rakhi or giving a gift. It’s about showing up, year after year, no matter what," she concluded.